How do you get to know someone on a date?
The best way to get to know someone on the first date is to ask questions. It can be difficult to know what to ask initially, so here are some tips to asking the right questions: Be sure to ask open-ended questions, or questions that require more than a 'yes' or 'no' response. Ask questions that seek details.
Should I hug her on the first date?
While friends hug each other, you shouldn't hug a girl after the first date. Do what she wants you to do and go for the kiss. Giving up after the first date is not an option, even if she doesn't reciprocate the kiss.